

Bev Priestman, celebrating her 40th birthday, reflects on her isolation during a one-year FIFA ban and expresses joy in returning to coaching the Wellington Phoenix for their first A-League Womenâs finals campaign.
Football is not the kind of profession that lends itself to time off for birthdays and the like. Especially when one is preparing to lead the Wellington Phoenix into their first A-League Womenâs finals campaign, as Bev Priestman was last week. Yet, especially when contrasted with the year prior, when she was still in the midst of a one-year Fifa ban after the spying scandal that engulfed Canada womenâs football team during the Paris Olympics, being among âher peopleâ turned out to be a gift in and of itself.
âIt was my 40th birthday [last week],â Priestman tells Moving the Goalposts*.* âAnd itâs those moments, I think to a year ago, and how I felt. And then how I felt in the club [this year], around my staff, around the team. I do this job because I love people. I love the game, obviously, but itâs working with people, getting your energy with people, and trying to inspire people and help them find a better version of themselves.
âWhat happened in Paris, and off the back of that, and the media runaway stories that you know necessarily arenât accurate. You just become very isolated, very, very quickly in a job where it is about being part of a team. That isolation hits you really, really hard, as well as things playing out in the public domain. The biggest joy Iâve had the most this year is just again, getting back on the pitch, working with people who want to be better. Iâve loved that.â
Now, if one were looking for somewhere to make a fresh start, somewhere well off the beaten track away from the spotlight, then Wellington would be right up there. Half a dayâs flying from anywhere that isnât Australia (and even then youâve got a 10-hour flight to play Perth Glory), its Phoenix are the only professional womenâs football team in New Zealand, meaning that it plays in the Australian top-tier.

âThe biggest joy Iâve had the most this year is just again, getting back on the pitch, working with people who want to be better.â Bev Priestman speaks to her Wellington Phoenix players during a training session. Photograph: Hagen Hopkins/The Guardian
Introduced during the buildup to the Australia and New Zealand co-hosted 2023 Womenâs World Cup, they had never reached the end-of-season playoffs in their four campaigns before 2025-26, with their best finish coming in 2023â24, when they finished eighth. They were somewhat lovable losers, generating little in the way of ill-well but rarely threatening to upset the established order.
Bev Priestman described feeling very isolated during her one-year FIFA ban, emphasizing the importance of being part of a team.
Bev Priestman celebrated her 40th birthday by reflecting on her experiences and enjoying time with her staff and team at Wellington Phoenix.
Wellington Phoenix is the only professional women's football team in New Zealand, competing in the Australian top-tier league.
Bev Priestman aims to inspire her players and help them find better versions of themselves as they prepare for their first A-League Womenâs finals campaign.

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But in 2025-26, Priestman took the foundation that had been built and constructed perhaps the competitionâs most well-oiled machine: fielding its highest scoring attack and most miserly defence, while being among the competitionâs leaders in most of its underlying metrics. Under her tutelage, the likes of Brooke Nunn and Grace Jale had breakout campaigns, while the 17-year-old Pia Vlok cemented herself as a star of the future.
This was not enough to break the dynastic hold that Melbourne City â part of the City Football Group â holds over the A-League, but it did secure them a second-place finish and a week off in the first week of the finals. If they can overturn a 2-1 deficit to Brisbane Roar in the second-leg of their semi-final this Sunday, temporary seating brought in to host an expected 5,000-strong crowd at Porirua Park in the biggest game in the teamâs history, they will qualify for a first grand final. Needless to say, people have taken notice.
âFor the last three months, wherever I go in the city, people seem to know who I am, who the team is, and how we did on the weekend,â Priestman says. âThatâs very different to when I arrived in Wellington. Itâs really turned into a womenâs football community. Thereâs a buzz about the city. But I think also being the only New Zealand team to compete in the A-League, itâs wider than just Wellington. Weâve got a lot of Football Ferns [New Zealand internationals]. I think thereâs a real buzz and energy.â

âWherever I go in the city, people seem to know who I am, who the team is, and how we did on the weekend. Thatâs very different to when I arrived in Wellington.â Bev Priestman during a Wellington Phoenix team huddle. Photograph: Hagen Hopkins/The Guardian
That Priestman is getting stopped by well-wishers on the street creates a contrast, too, given that she previously spoke about how she âdidnât feel safeâ in the aftermath of the spying scandal. New Zealand had always been something of a home, anyway, and her wife, Emma Humphries, was born in Wellington and took up a position as Phoenixâs academy director before the clubâs senior womenâs role opened up.
âThatâs nice. Not to be talked about, maybe for the controversial side of it, and just getting back to what I love and what I know I can be good at, thatâs really nice,â she reflects. âAnd I think itâs the reason you do want to take people with you, to see a bigger opportunity in what youâre doing. And I hope the people at the club, as well, now really do see what womenâs football can do.â
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